My father is a very macho man, so I expected a violent reaction, but he tried his best to understand the situation and it helped me a lot. There is no such a perfect time or perfect decision, just act as you feel it. Our relationship is deep, sincere and shared.
The college years were very violent because the construction of my own identity was totally focused on this difference that weighed on me enormously and that put me out of step with my classmates. The truth of this evidence, I began to be aware of my own latent homosexuality and homophobia and ubiquitous my family and geographical environment.